Your Lover

The lover

In all this time off, I've been gathering information to sit and discuss in this post.

I must comment that it was difficult choosing the title, and from several options think this was the most appropriate ... "the revolution of Married Men" was a good choice, but the Post goes beyond that; not only because they are married, others committed other having 3 or 4 women and others not worth mentioning.

In my work and social journey I have met different personalities, one more surprising than anything ... other more astute than others ... and some that appear to be what they are not ... that is very common and everyday, but lately (Y if it's not the age) I've met men without asking about marital status means they are "more than married" tired. Here goes the peculiar example of 3 of them: 1. This gentleman met him at a meeting on the premises of one chevere Guarolandía ... dude, good conversation, good nice bother to call me a couple of times week or send one another text Message in bed and you can not put score for that is another issue (no Sexually scales will always be good, very good and does not serve). The citizen in question has some carajitos, must have 2 or 3 and his wife or female. He never said so, but in these times of 2000 with technology and facebook, there is nothing that is not known in some photos tagged out there in the beach with family members and many kodak moments that give him away. 2. This leaflet is supposed to be the best of all, just for the simple fact that after inviting me to lunch, was sincere and said "I am married and my wife is a lawyer like you," I at no time I was surprised, because nothing happened beyond that lunch, but I think everything has remained so that we have a working relationship (although one does not have to do with the other). Like many invitations pediente still there calls and text messages that comfort. 3. Another Guaro more (and I've come to think that these hell are my karma); from the first time we met there was that thing called sexual chemistry; This veterinarian does not seem to be married, just "tired" of marriage. Must have a son, he also threw the straw facebook. We thought that everything would be all at once, but we already have a couple of months seeing us. We also thought that the question was just casual sex but when they start to see these llamaderas spent the weekend or you did at the end of the day, casual sex is no longer "occasional" and to realize that these half fucked.

After all this, I thought about looking for a married man outside marriage ... and the answer is simple: diversity. No seeking sex around, if not someone have to BE ABLE SOPs that have no need to feel committed or wait a typical response of marriage. They are looking for someone who is not ladille to see the football game with them after having sex. They are looking for someone who is not a them a fart that arrived after 10pm. They are looking for someone to share with your friends without criticizing them or think that they are some grabs ass. They are looking for a woman who did not look for them, but that they should and have to conquer. They are looking for a woman who is not in bed asking them if they want the same or more than their wives. They are looking for a chick that make them forget a routine and remind you that they can still be carrying the animals inside.

Before the moral right not let me view the role of the lover, in fact even rolled down my subconscious that ideology that "The lover is a woman who does not want herself." But now I differ from that thought ... Why mistress despite being sometimes in the background, is not peos stalls married man, is the one that takes the clothes to dress suitcase while the wife is which it is grilled to make the case. The lover is not cooking if not coming out to lunch or dinner. The lover is not being called, it is to callers. The lover is not denying having (as they do with the handcuffs), because the lover always be a friend. The lover is a woman who has all the weapons to screw a man of patience, but that does not enjoy that domain having at seeing the satisfied man.

The longer lover lover when he falls for the married man and loses its essence when the marriage ends. The lover is the complement man needs to be "happily married".

So now I have a proposal for future reform of the Civil Code and is not only the status of a person should be "married, single, divorced or widowed" if you add two new "LOVER AND TIRED".