Your Lover

The lover

In all this time off, I've been gathering information to sit and discuss in this post.

I must comment that it was difficult choosing the title, and from several options think this was the most appropriate ... "the revolution of Married Men" was a good choice, but the Post goes beyond that; not only because they are married, others committed other having 3 or 4 women and others not worth mentioning.

In my work and social journey I have met different personalities, one more surprising than anything ... other more astute than others ... and some that appear to be what they are not ... that is very common and everyday, but lately (Y if it's not the age) I've met men without asking about marital status means they are "more than married" tired. Here goes the peculiar example of 3 of them: 1. This gentleman met him at a meeting on the premises of one chevere Guarolandía ... dude, good conversation, good nice bother to call me a couple of times week or send one another text Message in bed and you can not put score for that is another issue (no Sexually scales will always be good, very good and does not serve). The citizen in question has some carajitos, must have 2 or 3 and his wife or female. He never said so, but in these times of 2000 with technology and facebook, there is nothing that is not known in some photos tagged out there in the beach with family members and many kodak moments that give him away. 2. This leaflet is supposed to be the best of all, just for the simple fact that after inviting me to lunch, was sincere and said "I am married and my wife is a lawyer like you," I at no time I was surprised, because nothing happened beyond that lunch, but I think everything has remained so that we have a working relationship (although one does not have to do with the other). Like many invitations pediente still there calls and text messages that comfort. 3. Another Guaro more (and I've come to think that these hell are my karma); from the first time we met there was that thing called sexual chemistry; This veterinarian does not seem to be married, just "tired" of marriage. Must have a son, he also threw the straw facebook. We thought that everything would be all at once, but we already have a couple of months seeing us. We also thought that the question was just casual sex but when they start to see these llamaderas spent the weekend or you did at the end of the day, casual sex is no longer "occasional" and to realize that these half fucked.

After all this, I thought about looking for a married man outside marriage ... and the answer is simple: diversity. No seeking sex around, if not someone have to BE ABLE SOPs that have no need to feel committed or wait a typical response of marriage. They are looking for someone who is not ladille to see the football game with them after having sex. They are looking for someone who is not a them a fart that arrived after 10pm. They are looking for someone to share with your friends without criticizing them or think that they are some grabs ass. They are looking for a woman who did not look for them, but that they should and have to conquer. They are looking for a woman who is not in bed asking them if they want the same or more than their wives. They are looking for a chick that make them forget a routine and remind you that they can still be carrying the animals inside.

Before the moral right not let me view the role of the lover, in fact even rolled down my subconscious that ideology that "The lover is a woman who does not want herself." But now I differ from that thought ... Why mistress despite being sometimes in the background, is not peos stalls married man, is the one that takes the clothes to dress suitcase while the wife is which it is grilled to make the case. The lover is not cooking if not coming out to lunch or dinner. The lover is not being called, it is to callers. The lover is not denying having (as they do with the handcuffs), because the lover always be a friend. The lover is a woman who has all the weapons to screw a man of patience, but that does not enjoy that domain having at seeing the satisfied man.

The longer lover lover when he falls for the married man and loses its essence when the marriage ends. The lover is the complement man needs to be "happily married".

So now I have a proposal for future reform of the Civil Code and is not only the status of a person should be "married, single, divorced or widowed" if you add two new "LOVER AND TIRED".

How To Make Love

Making love means to give and receive sexual satisfaction

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Important aspects
These aspects consider:

• Manners
• Ambient
• Desire and Seduction
• Attraction
• Responsibility

The most important: surrender to passion!

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Manners are basic to reach the sex and make the experience memorable.

Good manners should show from the first date. For both sexes, it is always very grateful to be treated with respect and attention.

It is a thousand times easier to be attracted to someone who is friendly towards us shows that a person who reveals how little importance is given to the situation.

After finally gave that first time, it is essential that though, chemistry not come, manners and good treatment persist for the other person.

The environment is another essential to consider when making love point.

Create a romantic atmosphere that includes scents, candles, music, and an aphrodisiac dish is excellent for both are delivered at the time.

When the environment around us suggests something specific, our body lets wrap it, so the mind and the senses open to sexual solicitation letting each centimeter of skin and every thought be swayed toward union of bodies and culminating in a fabulous orgasm, as the end of a wonderful and exciting experience.

Lovemaking has many healthy benefits

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The desire and seduction are key part of making love.

Seduce a person and be seduced by it makes the sexual encounter into something exciting and imaginative. Seduction causes the body gradually ask the physical part of love, and this just creates a great desire that sex is 10 times better.

It is important that this desire always present before, during and even after sex. If this plug does not exist, you can not have an experience in lovemaking as ought to live.

Attraction: Of course to get to sex attraction must exist. The attraction of the two parties represents extra points on the subject of love in the bed it is.

To succumb to sexually love must not be selfish, think of the person who is with us and you have to be aware of whether there is a sincere and real attraction to her or to you.

It is true that exalts romance and magnificent sex, makes it special and gives you more feeling. However, if this issue is not between the couple does not mean that sex should be simple and meaningless.

To live happily sex, the person should feel sensual and attractive. If your partner feels this way, you will also feel better while you make love. Therefore, whatever the situation never stop doing feel attractive and sexy to your partner. And you, for your part, put all your desire to try to look sexy for that special person waiting for you in the room, remember that someone wants to look good for oneself, increases self-esteem and safety during sex.

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Responsibility: Sex is not for fools. And although the idea of ​​taking us by surprise sex is very exciting, keep in mind that sexuality is serious and requires both responsibility and commitment to the decisions we make with respect to the.

Currently advertising campaigns, friendships and society itself often promotes sex without precautions you should take.

Sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies are on the agenda.
Fortunately, today there are many types of protection to prevent STDs and conception.

It is the responsibility and duty to take care of ourselves and take care of your partner also for STDs

What Is Love?

Here's my thoughts about love.   Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.    Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all Depending on the context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy. In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.  Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.  Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare.